Becky's Blog

Resilience During IVF Treatment? You Already Have It.

Our guest blogger this week is positive psychology coach Gemma Duffy. She argues that resilience, alongside other coping qualities, is a natural ability we all possess. I’ve always been fascinated by resilience journeys – by the stories of how people endure hardship yet still manage to keep moving forward. I devour the memoirs and autobiographies of arctic explorers and individuals

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360 Fertility by Liberty Mills – a pragmatic and personal guide to conception

This comprehensive self-help book sets a high bar for fertility and conception advice and is unafraid to tackle the mental challenges facing would-be parents. Self-help fertility books proliferate, and some are distinctly better than others. Happily, 360 Fertility, by Liberty Mills, is one of the latter. It’s a pragmatic and heartfelt guide to improving your conception chances.   Dedicated to

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I’m An IVF Dad – Read My 10 Survival Tips

Our guest blogger this week, John Roy, talks about IVF from the male perspective. A testicular cancer diagnosis led to urgent IVF treatment – and a reassessment of his and his partner’s wellbeing.            My cancer diagnosis brought everything into sharp focus. Would I survive? How would my partner cope? And, given we chose to freeze

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Our Donor Egg Kids: 5 Things We Didn’t Need To Worry About

The decision to use donor eggs is huge. That said, having done it, and with two amazing donor-conceived daughters to show for it, we worried a great deal about that decision. Would we bond with our children? Was the technology safe? Were donors rigorously screened? These, and many more questions and concerns, occupied our thoughts at the start of our

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Considering IVF? 5 Key Tips Starting Your Fertility Journey

If you’re having difficulties conceiving, there’s a moment when you may consider IVF. But it’s not always needed. Small adjustments can make a big difference. Planning your conception attempts more proactively, at an earlier stage, could save you time, cash and a whole lot of anxiety. In the second episode of our fertility podcast (you can listen to it below),

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Family, Friends & Mo Farah – Keeping Our IVF Dreams Alive

What role do family and friends really play when you’re going through fertility treatment? Looking back at our own five-year IVF battle, most wanted the best for us, but few knew what to say. The connections you have with family and friends can be tested when you’re stuck in the chaos and confusion of IVF. We found that a listening

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